One of the first things I would do as a minister called to another church is to ask for a list of members who no longer came. I would call, setup an appointment with each one of them and go to their homes. I told them everything would be in confidence. I just wanted to know why they no longer came. I heard things like: “the preacher played favorites,” or “I took on too many responsibilities and just burned out,” or, “the trustees or deacons tried to run the church,” or “there was too much quarreling, gossip,” etc.
I assured them that I never played favorites, that I would be open to any concerns they had, etc. We had prayer together. I would leave with this: ” I heard it said that a new broom sweeps clean. I am glad to be your pastor and hope that you will give us another chance. Regardless, please call if I can help in any way.” mackie
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‘On July 28, bestselling author Anne Rice officially left the Roman Catholic Church. The writer has had a fairly tumultuous religious history. Although she was raised Catholic, Rice rejected the church for the first time when she was 18.
But in 1998, Rice — who’s famous mostly for writing steamy, gothic, decidedly un-Christian novels such as Interview with the Vampire — had a religious awakening. She converted to Catholicism and began to write exclusively Christian-themed novels, like Christ the Lord: Out of Egypt.
In July, Rice decided she had had enough. She announced her decision on her Facebook page:
“For those who care, and I understand if you don’t: Today I quit being a Christian. I’m out. I remain committed to Christ as always but not to being ‘Christian’ or to being part of Christianity. It’s simply impossible for me to ‘belong’ to this quarrelsome, hostile, disputatious, and deservedly infamous group. For ten years, I’ve tried. I’ve failed. I’m an outsider. My conscience will allow nothing else.”
But, the decision wasn’t an easy one.’
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